You ever look at that one guy in your classroom and think, “Damn, Why is He so fat?”
Or maybe at the girl across the street, “Ughh.. Look at Her..”
Yup. Look at Her. And Look at Him.
No seriously. Just do.
And tell me what you see.
Let’s just start by saying that He or She is a very lucky person.
They are lucky, because they don’t have YOU in their life.
Yes, YOU. Because YOU are just another pile of misery that they feed on every day. And thank the Great Heavens that they don’t have to go through your rude comments on how awkward She looks in that cute little dress she brought at the store the other day or about how the good looking zero sized girl that they crush on would never set her eyes on Him.
So what if He or She is fat? I mean, just Look at Her. And Him.
I could give you a billion reasons to how they are an infinite times better than you are right now.
Okay, where do I start? Let’s just assume, that His life is filled with obnoxious, self absorbed, above average looking people like YOU. They alienated Him, left Him on his own and went to the extent of bullying him. Soul scarred for life, but why do YOU care, you just like seeing a fat little piggy squeal, don’t you?
He might either enjoy His alienation and Evolve.
Or He might find The Best, The Most Genuine And Honest people in life, who might even stay throughout till death, no backstabbing and with occasional fights and Pain-In-The-Rear-End moments. People He would gladly show off with the evergreen title of, “My Best Friend”.
Whereas you, My Beauty Queen (or King, for that matter), would meet people who fall for your beauty and charm, lack of self respect and respect towards people who are slightly larger than you are, but would they stay forever? Would they kill for you?
I bet you a billion bucks, they won’t.
Because they are after your looks, Girl. Or Boy. Why do I care? I care about The Boy or Girl YOU Body-Shamed at least once in your life.
Now let’s enlighten You on how the Guy (Or Girl. Urghh... ) who weren't so lucky and got alienated. Both versions. Good and Bad.
This Beautiful Creature, cried Himself to night every day of his existence. He read books and listened to songs and could tell you all about what he found the other day. You may find that he has the most compassionate heart, the purest of souls and trust me when I tell you to trust his judgement on people and life, Because He knows Perspectives, something which You possibly don’t know. He knows perspectives, because He has been There.
Bad Version? He just turned into a serial killer, or even worse, Your dental doctor.
Karma and Her ways to get back at you.
No one would blame you.
But I would.
I would blame you every day for the rest of your miserable life about what you did to that slightly overweight girl across the street.
I would remind you how it would all have been different in an alternate universe. You guys meet, you keep your prejudice at bay for a change, and you talk. You might be surprised how He might tell you things that no body had dared to tell you so far. He might make you a big deal in his Universe, and trust me, if we are talking about worthiness here, I would think that you would rather be a Superstar in a foreign country, in a foreign TV show, where you get some value for your exceptional acting skills than be a slave that everyone spits on at home.
If He makes You part of His Universe, trust me, it is way better than being a part of the fantasies those spineless pricks you hangout with think about you every night.
You swear that you would really want to be a unique person, be a gem among worthless stones, yet you still act like them.
Next time you see Her, talk to Her. She is an introvert, I tell you. She might withdraw to her own Cocoon of Happiness, created because of You. But don’t let that ruin the image I just build up for Her. She is just Fat. Fat Heart and Everything. The Package Deal.
Who knows? One day she might be the star bridesmaid at your wedding. He might be the reason you didn’t kill yourself for that idiot who dumped you the last week. She might be the reason why you laugh so much. He might be the reason why you are into Star Wars. She might be the one to teach you cook. He might teach you to fart. Who knows?
How will you know the truth about Him or Her unless you willingly seek it out yourself?
It’s all about Perspective, you know.
.
-An Article By
The Violet Woman
Or maybe at the girl across the street, “Ughh.. Look at Her..”
Yup. Look at Her. And Look at Him.
No seriously. Just do.
And tell me what you see.
Let’s just start by saying that He or She is a very lucky person.
They are lucky, because they don’t have YOU in their life.
Yes, YOU. Because YOU are just another pile of misery that they feed on every day. And thank the Great Heavens that they don’t have to go through your rude comments on how awkward She looks in that cute little dress she brought at the store the other day or about how the good looking zero sized girl that they crush on would never set her eyes on Him.
So what if He or She is fat? I mean, just Look at Her. And Him.
I could give you a billion reasons to how they are an infinite times better than you are right now.
Okay, where do I start? Let’s just assume, that His life is filled with obnoxious, self absorbed, above average looking people like YOU. They alienated Him, left Him on his own and went to the extent of bullying him. Soul scarred for life, but why do YOU care, you just like seeing a fat little piggy squeal, don’t you?
He might either enjoy His alienation and Evolve.
Or He might find The Best, The Most Genuine And Honest people in life, who might even stay throughout till death, no backstabbing and with occasional fights and Pain-In-The-Rear-End moments. People He would gladly show off with the evergreen title of, “My Best Friend”.
Whereas you, My Beauty Queen (or King, for that matter), would meet people who fall for your beauty and charm, lack of self respect and respect towards people who are slightly larger than you are, but would they stay forever? Would they kill for you?
I bet you a billion bucks, they won’t.
Because they are after your looks, Girl. Or Boy. Why do I care? I care about The Boy or Girl YOU Body-Shamed at least once in your life.
Now let’s enlighten You on how the Guy (Or Girl. Urghh... ) who weren't so lucky and got alienated. Both versions. Good and Bad.
This Beautiful Creature, cried Himself to night every day of his existence. He read books and listened to songs and could tell you all about what he found the other day. You may find that he has the most compassionate heart, the purest of souls and trust me when I tell you to trust his judgement on people and life, Because He knows Perspectives, something which You possibly don’t know. He knows perspectives, because He has been There.
Bad Version? He just turned into a serial killer, or even worse, Your dental doctor.
Karma and Her ways to get back at you.
No one would blame you.
But I would.
I would blame you every day for the rest of your miserable life about what you did to that slightly overweight girl across the street.
I would remind you how it would all have been different in an alternate universe. You guys meet, you keep your prejudice at bay for a change, and you talk. You might be surprised how He might tell you things that no body had dared to tell you so far. He might make you a big deal in his Universe, and trust me, if we are talking about worthiness here, I would think that you would rather be a Superstar in a foreign country, in a foreign TV show, where you get some value for your exceptional acting skills than be a slave that everyone spits on at home.
If He makes You part of His Universe, trust me, it is way better than being a part of the fantasies those spineless pricks you hangout with think about you every night.
You swear that you would really want to be a unique person, be a gem among worthless stones, yet you still act like them.
Next time you see Her, talk to Her. She is an introvert, I tell you. She might withdraw to her own Cocoon of Happiness, created because of You. But don’t let that ruin the image I just build up for Her. She is just Fat. Fat Heart and Everything. The Package Deal.
Who knows? One day she might be the star bridesmaid at your wedding. He might be the reason you didn’t kill yourself for that idiot who dumped you the last week. She might be the reason why you laugh so much. He might be the reason why you are into Star Wars. She might be the one to teach you cook. He might teach you to fart. Who knows?
How will you know the truth about Him or Her unless you willingly seek it out yourself?
It’s all about Perspective, you know.
.
-An Article By
The Violet Woman
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